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Creating Structure

As a parent of a child with autism or ADHD, you may feel overwhelmed and unsure of how to best support your child. One key way to help your child is by creating structure in their daily routine. Structure can provide a sense of predictability and stability, which can help your child feel more secure and better able to manage their behavior.

Here are some tips for creating structure in your home


1. Make a daily schedule

Having a clear, visual schedule can help your child know what to expect each day. You can use pictures, words, or a combination of both to show your child what activities they will be doing and when. You can also include transitions, such as "after breakfast we will brush our teeth" to help your child understand how their day will flow.​

2. Set consistent routines

Consistent routines can help your child feel more secure and reduce anxiety. This can include routines for bedtime, mealtimes, and transitioning between activities. For example, you might have a set bedtime routine that includes reading a story, brushing teeth, and saying goodnight to each family member.​

3. Use visual aids

Visual aids, such as picture schedules or social stories, can be particularly helpful for children with autism. These tools can help your child understand what is expected of them and what will happen in different situations. For example, you might use a social story to help your child understand how to behave in a store or restaurant.

4. Create a calm and organized environment

A cluttered or chaotic environment can be overwhelming for children with autism or ADHD. Try to keep your child's environment as organized and calm as possible. This can include creating designated areas for play, homework, and other activities. You might also consider using sensory items, such as fidgets or weighted blankets, to help your child regulate their senses and manage their behavior.

5. Establish clear rules and expectations

Establishing clear rules and expectations can help your child understand what is expected of them. Make sure to communicate these rules and expectations consistently and reinforce them when your child follows them. It can also be helpful to have a system in place for addressing misbehavior, such as a time-out or loss of privileges.

6. Use positive reinforcement

Positive reinforcement can be an effective way to encourage your child's desired behavior. This can include praising your child when they follow the rules or complete a task, or providing rewards for good behavior. It's important to be specific and timely with your praise or rewards, so your child knows exactly what they did to earn them.

7. Be patient and understanding

Parenting a child with autism or ADHD can be challenging, and it's important to be patient and understanding with your child. Remember that your child is not acting out or misbehaving on purpose, and that they may need extra support and guidance to learn and grow.

Final Words

Creating structure in your home may take some time and effort, but the benefits for your child can be significant. By providing a predictable and organized environment, you can help your child feel more secure and better able to manage their behavior. Remember to be patient and understanding, and seek support from friends, family, or one of our therapists if you need it. With care and dedication, you can create a loving and supportive home for your child.

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